Taken for granted??

the greatest flaw about humans is that they take things for granted.
My clique? no stranger to it either. hmm about 4 guys and a girl
lets discount the girl out, females always have upper priority for me
ladies first, ladies can have the say, is my mantra

i mean, hello wake up? guys? wake up? you all are grownups
some thinkings needs to be changed!
for example, if a girl is having any dispassion, moody, silent, noisy, crazy 0_0
whichever mood loh....... u guys gonna get upset with it? thats ungentlemenly

for me it is straightforward, girls must pay extra attention
maybe for you all its harder, cuz no younger/older sisters to understand
im fortunate to have sisters and i've learnt some stuffs frm them!

come'on... u dun pay attention to/give in to girls only when
1) they are your family
2) your wife/girlfriend
3) some very very very close buddies

u can't be thinking your (quite low) tolerance/sensitivity towards girls,
can actually last you and make u a better person right?
wake up and pay attention to ppl around you

"do to people what you want them to do upon you"

treat ppl in a more selfrespecting way,
be more sensitive towards potential feelings and
pride and your own interests counts for nothing.
so what if you in future will like someone and dote a lot on her?
u are at heart still selfish and selfcentered, until u address it
and when things go awry, thats when ur 'ugliness' is shown

i'm no saint myself as i say this.
But i do know the importance of changing the "core" of self
and shown as my msn nick, the word "changed" is Not for nothing
i know for myself internally i am changing for the better
what about you guuys? or like the movie "Wanted" said:
"what the fuck have you done today"
it is a wakeup call to ppl who keep procrastinating, for the wrong reasons

personally for me, up in schedule are a series of change,
some internal, some external activities.
while im starting to learnt to explore other fun filled activities,
as well as furthur nurturing my patience and essential core values,
as well as technical values/skills,

i will continue to jio you all to the so manyvibrant things potentially waiting for anyone
its all down to the very fact: everybody in the clique is a best fren to me
if i want to improve i want everyone to improve together
if i want to beach volley i jio u guys together
if i want to game and have fun i join you all together
if i want to improve as a person, lets all improve together
should this be the way??? positively influencing each other and taking steps forward?

to all my clique frens: if you ever notice this blog at all..
We all as true frens, learn from one another
we give feedbacks to each other and improve on them
lets all start to , hmm, wake up, and improve as man
you will want to be more of a caring person material,
rather than a selfish insensitive person.

and if any of you ever come accross this,
these are the exact feelings i want to relate to everyone.
you want to keep making strides forward
and more importantly together.
peace and harmorny is indeed precious
don't take it for granted.