2 past weeks of negativity and pessimism
can't help but consume lousy thoughts
trying so hard to dispel this loser feeling,
but things havent been going all too well
a few things to worry about that got me moody
and a few things to add to frustration and helplessness
but of course if i look from a negative pt of view,
then nothings gonna look right don't they??
so its time be back to my usual self!!
i sincerely/remotely apologise to those who may have been affected in this past emo week of mine
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Friday, August 6, 2010
Life is Simple but human minds are Complex
Wonders if the saying of "through the test of times" will hold true
Sometimes, perception is cast really in the first few meetups, or engagements
the way u will "look" is the way u present/extend yourself to the crowd
it can also happen in another way. noticeably when you done something out of the norm
one that captures other's attention and makes them think
"didn't know he or she was like that".. etc.
Usually, this will be of a negative impression though. haha
If its one thing learnt in life, it is that it is really hard to get out of a perception cast
very. this is coupled with human natures basic skepticism and the result?
good impression tends to stay okay, bad impressions aren't never gonna turn good, aren't they?
at least that is for most of the case.
sometimes even when one tries real hard, to make an effort. others do not see it
many possibilities, it could be that they couldn't be bothered.
or it could be that they are just simply interested in themselves
or it could be that they noted changes, but somehow, simply refuse to acknowledge and stick with the "usual" sayings
or it could be some theory that ppl will say others 1st so that they will not be e one in spotlight
in any case, some could be hurt in the process if things are not dealt in a good way.
though at most times hopefully, im not the the topic (phew), it is interesting to observe hw people talk about other people and hw that other people talk about people, and etc
its like watching SouthKoreans squabble with North Koreans when ultimately they are just humans, Koreans, and should have re-united long ago. but the human in control make it almost impossible. yes mr north korean president, please fk off and wake up your idea!
and it is disappointing to note that some, for how good they presented themselves to be, hw neutral they "appear" to be, falls into the trap.
or as the saying goes "the Fox tail is revealing.." lol
so usually, people hardly change. they say "certain thing don't change" maybe that is true
but personally i am till today intrigued to understand more why so, the rationale behind it.
somehow it matches up with management studies. similar in a way
classical versus administrative approach.
"what should be, by right" versus "since its like that, i will only do this"
"optimally, we work together to achieve greater goals" versus "we just do enough to satisfice and earn a living"
personally i would relate to the latter ideology/mentality as "weakening of the mind"
ok or maybe its just that im trying, TRYing to think optimistic. HAHA
many variables, one is the ability of the person to withstand "critiques" which may or may nt be true. one more could be the severity/extent to which the person is making the critique
In an idealistic world, one would like to believe that humans will come to understand each other, or try to.
wtf it sounds so much like from Naruto anime -_-
however, in a realistic world, this is pretty much far from it.
in real life, people play politics, they backstab, they "talk" and not do, many other things
personally i would think its essential but only use them when really needed.
Life is Simple but human minds are Complex
trying to understand everyone and every type' is quite impossible
but through observation and empathy, it is possible to understand some traits for some.
It is one of my aim in life to be a better man in overall
status, money, power, family, relationship, friendship, happiness, etc
in no particular rank of order. i'll like to continue to take a leap of faith in all
and continue to work hard towards a better quality of life
i shall not procrastinate, at times i may complain, but i have confidence that,
things can only get better and better =)
Sometimes, perception is cast really in the first few meetups, or engagements
the way u will "look" is the way u present/extend yourself to the crowd
it can also happen in another way. noticeably when you done something out of the norm
one that captures other's attention and makes them think
"didn't know he or she was like that".. etc.
Usually, this will be of a negative impression though. haha
If its one thing learnt in life, it is that it is really hard to get out of a perception cast
very. this is coupled with human natures basic skepticism and the result?
good impression tends to stay okay, bad impressions aren't never gonna turn good, aren't they?
at least that is for most of the case.
sometimes even when one tries real hard, to make an effort. others do not see it
many possibilities, it could be that they couldn't be bothered.
or it could be that they are just simply interested in themselves
or it could be that they noted changes, but somehow, simply refuse to acknowledge and stick with the "usual" sayings
or it could be some theory that ppl will say others 1st so that they will not be e one in spotlight
in any case, some could be hurt in the process if things are not dealt in a good way.
though at most times hopefully, im not the the topic (phew), it is interesting to observe hw people talk about other people and hw that other people talk about people, and etc
its like watching SouthKoreans squabble with North Koreans when ultimately they are just humans, Koreans, and should have re-united long ago. but the human in control make it almost impossible. yes mr north korean president, please fk off and wake up your idea!
and it is disappointing to note that some, for how good they presented themselves to be, hw neutral they "appear" to be, falls into the trap.
or as the saying goes "the Fox tail is revealing.." lol
so usually, people hardly change. they say "certain thing don't change" maybe that is true
but personally i am till today intrigued to understand more why so, the rationale behind it.
somehow it matches up with management studies. similar in a way
classical versus administrative approach.
"what should be, by right" versus "since its like that, i will only do this"
"optimally, we work together to achieve greater goals" versus "we just do enough to satisfice and earn a living"
personally i would relate to the latter ideology/mentality as "weakening of the mind"
ok or maybe its just that im trying, TRYing to think optimistic. HAHA
many variables, one is the ability of the person to withstand "critiques" which may or may nt be true. one more could be the severity/extent to which the person is making the critique
In an idealistic world, one would like to believe that humans will come to understand each other, or try to.
wtf it sounds so much like from Naruto anime -_-
however, in a realistic world, this is pretty much far from it.
in real life, people play politics, they backstab, they "talk" and not do, many other things
personally i would think its essential but only use them when really needed.
Life is Simple but human minds are Complex
trying to understand everyone and every type' is quite impossible
but through observation and empathy, it is possible to understand some traits for some.
It is one of my aim in life to be a better man in overall
status, money, power, family, relationship, friendship, happiness, etc
in no particular rank of order. i'll like to continue to take a leap of faith in all
and continue to work hard towards a better quality of life
i shall not procrastinate, at times i may complain, but i have confidence that,
things can only get better and better =)
Tuesday, August 3, 2010
Street Dance~
Watched Street Dance! but not in 3d though..
i dunno why, i think i kinda quite like Dance films now haha
maybe the moves are nice =)
Well, Street Dance this movie was above the average to start with
for a movie which was like an appetizer to the real one i've been waiting for,
(yes Step Up 3D!) YES THEY ARE actually 2 different movies lolx, some got confused
It was quite a nice movie actually,
while its soundtrack can't be compared to the upcoming Step Up 3D soundtrack
nevertheless i've found a nice song, this "main theme" of Street Dance
and beginning to like it ^^
URL:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H1BkR760o94&feature=related
Lyrics:
http://www.lyricsreg.com/lyrics/n-dubz/We+Dance+On/
Lyrics in Mind:
It’s gonna be real hard
But I’m gonna be okay
As long as I try real hard
I’m always gonna find my way
I’ma find my way
i dunno why, i think i kinda quite like Dance films now haha
maybe the moves are nice =)
Well, Street Dance this movie was above the average to start with
for a movie which was like an appetizer to the real one i've been waiting for,
(yes Step Up 3D!) YES THEY ARE actually 2 different movies lolx, some got confused
It was quite a nice movie actually,
while its soundtrack can't be compared to the upcoming Step Up 3D soundtrack
nevertheless i've found a nice song, this "main theme" of Street Dance
and beginning to like it ^^
URL:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H1BkR760o94&feature=related
Lyrics:
http://www.lyricsreg.com/lyrics/n-dubz/We+Dance+On/
Lyrics in Mind:
It’s gonna be real hard
But I’m gonna be okay
As long as I try real hard
I’m always gonna find my way
I’ma find my way
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